Complaint / review text:
I have been on eHarmony for many months.in that time I have had many men (perhaps?) contact me, usually in answering some smile I sent out. Out of all of them, almost everyone started out looking normal, and then by the time we got to email it was obvious that they were from another country, hardly spoke normal English, and pushed to get my home phone number or off site Email right away. Also, almost all of them had their pages shutdown or addressed by eHarmony saying that they were "compromised". And then of course eHarmony takes all the communications we've had and they are gone... Poof, no proof.
This site seems inundated by phishing and I have no faith that any guy on that site is even a real guy looking for a relationship. Kind of makes it hard to take new communications seriously when you feel like it's just another jerk mining for information. I would ditch this site in a heartbeat. It's ill-conceived, micro managed in how many letters you can use to explain yourself in all areas, and overrun with fake accounts in my opinion. Really a waste of time.